Year Two

I’ve been told it will be harder.  It is.  I wish I could tell you all that it is.  I can’t.  I finally told Dave tonight what it’s like.  I think he’s scared.  I’m not.  It is what it is.

Song for the night:  Once in a Lifetime, Talking Heads

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~ by Linda on August 19, 2008.

6 Responses to “Year Two”

  1. Lida, I WALKTHIS JOURNEY WITH YOU, WHAT CAN I SAY IT IS SEEMINGLY GETTING TOUGHER, IM TRYING SO HARD TO GET STRONGER 1 STEP FORWARD 10 BACK. LOV YOU , THINKIN OF YOU ALWAYS . LOV HUGS , SANDY

  2. The video choice is very revealing (I have always loved this song by talking Heads by the way!).

    I guess it’s not hard to realise what you’re thinking. Time moves on but feelings remain the same – same as they ever were, same as they ever will be.

    I can feel your sadness, and a quiet despair – and I’m sorry for that – although I understand.

    But please do remember that not only do the sad feelings remain – but also the love, the good feelings, the good memories too.

    And one day, maybe, whenever, the good memories will take prime position and the sad memories will surface just some days instead of all days.

    Until then ….

  3. Hello Linda,

    I feel for your longing and sadness. I myself have not really “moved on”. We just go through life now as Robert used to say like learning to walk on one foot. We just also have to keep holding on to all the good memories of our lost loved ones and believe that one day we will be with them again. “To love and to hold” forever.

    Just remember too that we are here for you and that we always pray that you and Owen find the peace you so deserve.

    Take care and God bless you always.

    Best regards,

    Bong

  4. This is not my life…

    How did I get here…

    Yes, a good song choice for the grieving. Why is Dave afraid? Is he worried about YOU? Are you doing what you need to do to care for yourself? Now more than ever it’s essential that you do what you need to do to be healthy. For all your conflicted emotions that you’ve shared with us over the last year, I know that may be hard, but you have to love yourself.

    Hang in there, my friend.

  5. linda, So Thinking about you each moment of everyday!!!!!!!!!! Wishing You Peace , Walking beside You Every Step Of The Way !!!!!!!!!!
    lov Big Hugs , Sandy Shanes Mom Forever !!!!!!

  6. Linda: Please let us know that you are alright, and know that you are in my prayers and thoughts daily. I miss you and your writing so very much, and I hope that you are getting the rest you need and deserve. Write me anytime. I love you-Lonnette

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